So it's been about 5 weeks and things are settling down around here. I was foolish and Bill has chosen to forgive me and we are working on creating a stronger bond between us. Somewhere in the last year or so, we began to take 0ne another for granted. We became too comfortable with one another and forgot to say please and thank you and I love you to one another. We spent time in the same room but not time "together". We are working on that now. We make sure to spend alone time every day without the kids. He and I have been together over 16 years and were best friends before that....He's worth everything to me...and I am going to show him that all over again. Any thoughts and prayers are welcome as we rediscover who we are together.