This post has been deleted by author as she decided things really aren't as bad as all THAT...and she has decided to live, love and let go of the things she has no control over. Sides, I hear I may have company in the form of one VERY hot Bob White tomorrow...wonder if he knows how to Salsa?? If he doesn't, he's got some learning in store...I'm gonna PARTY HARD on my special day! Pina Coladas anyone??