why do I bother? She made up her mind. The stupid thing is, she sees it, she knows with her head..and i do think she knows with her heart. She is choosing to ignore it though and stay with him. There is NOTHING I can say nor do anymore so i am not going to really try. One day, she will look back and thing my god, what have I done..where has my life gone and why did I not listen to what my best friend was trying to tell me. And then, she's stuck....and while I tell her I will be there for her, that i shall support her, that I will be there to pick her up again when he cheats again....but can I really do that?? can I continue to hide my feelings on the situation and if not, will be voicing them cause her to resent me?? She hates when I "dont say what I am thinking" but i won't be able to...cause it will hurt...and I can't. no I won't, be the one who hurts her this time. She will have enough hurt to deal with when he once agains screws her over. So once again, I need to step back...I just wish I knew how. I wish she wouldn't be stupid...I wish she would think with her head and not her heart.Her heart will betray her...I know...mine betrayed me.