I was re-reading some old posts and came across this bit I had written a little over 2 years ago. If anything, it is more appropriate now:

Sometimes I think we, as women, tend to forget a very powerful word. Yes, there have been magazine articles galore reminding us of this word. Yet, I read friends blogs and see that they haven't learned it any more than I have. We need to say, "NO!". There comes a time when we just need to let everything go. Tell your closest friends, "you know, I KNOW I owe you a Thank You card, but right now, I am so behind, I just thought I would tell you in person and hope you understand how behind I am." TRUST ME, if they are your true friends, they'll understand. The same can be said for school events that don't directly relate to your child's scholastic life, for parties on Friday nights when you just want your pajamas and a bowl of Ben and Jerry's, and yes, even for church on Sunday mornings. Sometimes it's easier to just talk to God while you rest at home. I believe He listens regardless of my own location. I am trying to simplify my life right now. The stress is getting to be too much with family issues going on.

LOL If only I had known the stressers that were coming...I might have pulled the covers over my head and never have come up for air. "No" has always been hard for me to say to people. I am a pleaser. But lately, I have used it with the people in my life who know me and know I try my best. They've seen me at my best, some at my worst, and they love me anyway. It has helped. So...to you all who have my back...much love back at ya...I've got you covered too ~MWAH~